My best friends from Laos visit me in Bangkok
Recently, I posted many photos of my trips in Thailand in my Facebook, and received a lot of messages, comments and Like clicks from friends around the world. Some of my friends, especially from Japan, USA and Laos changed their plan and made their ways to Bangkok to visit me. They thought that I might be a good tour guide to take them around, but they were wrong. Although I had spent 5 years in Thailand before, but that was 15 years ago, and most of the time I spend my life in the North of Thailand. Many things in Bangkok has been changed enormously during the past decade, especially the pop-up of many tall buildings, the reduction of air pollution, and the use of modern way of transportation such as Sky Train, and Subway systems. This made Bangkok a city of life and even more amazing than before.
Sunset over Bangkok from the top of building bar
Due to the facts that there are so many things to see and do in Bangkok, it gives me sometime a headache on what to introduce to my friends who has never been here and have limited time to visit. What come up in to my mind is the tourist attractions such as Grand Palace, temples, and museums. I also love to introduce my friends to various kind of thai food, drinks and tropical fruits. Bangkok is also a paradise for shopping as there are many good quality products with reasonable prices. The places that I like to introduce to my friends is Chatuchak Weekend market, MBK, and stalls along the street at night.
Depends where my friends are from, their interests seem to be different from country to country. Most of my Japanese friends love Thai food, Thai massage, and follow the tourist tracks. My American friends love to do something out of the tourist tracks, and enjoy drinking and dancing the whole night. My Lao friends love shopping, and enjoying taking photos of themselves. These are some of the cultural differences I could observe, and it tells me a lot about the nature of people from different places.
As my time in Bangkok is getting short, I would also like to enjoy myself. If time allow, I would like to explore more the area that I have never visited and experience and learn more the local ways of Thai people. Five things that I would like to do here before I go back to my country is:
1. To attend Thai cooking class
2. To watch Thai boxing
3. To have alms-giving
4. To visit unseen places
5. To visit more NGOs
Thailand and Laos has many things in common especially the cultures and Language. However, I feel that there are so many things in Thailand that I have to learn from, especially the way they think, and the way they develop their country. There are also many dark sides of bangkok that worth learning so that Vientiane could avoid in the future. For the time being, what I can do is to try my best to learn how to deal with various conflicts and find resolution so that I could integrate what I have learned into the real situation in Lao society.